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There is no longer any question about the validity of near-death states. The Dutch Study published 12-15-01 in Lancet Medical Journal by cardiologist Pim van Lommel (a prospective clinical study, 10 hospitals, 344 cardiac patients, 2 and 8 year follow-ups), lays that to rest along with most of the arguments that seek to toss off the phenomenon as nothing more than "oxygen deprivation," or the like. Defining it, though, is no simple task. We know now that the "classical model" of §oating free of the body (as if a spirit), traveling through a tunnel, encountering a bright and loving light, being met by deceased loved ones, knowing or being told "It isn't your time, you must return," reviving back in the physical body - isn't really that classical. What people experience on "The Other Side" of death is far more wide-ranging than that; description given and how the episode is interpreted depend more on cultural traditions and language constraints than on what actually occurred.
In my own research base of 4,000 (plus) adult and 277 child experiencers, I found four distinctive patterns of near-death experiences, not one. They are: the initial experience (usually brief and simple) consists of things like the loving nothingness, the living dark, a friendly voice, brief out-of-body experience, a visitation; the unpleasant or hellish experience encounters with a threatening void or stark limbo, hellish purgatory, scenes of a startling and unexpected indifference, even "hauntings" from one's own past (life reviews are common); the pleasant or heavenly experience loving reunions with deceased relatives/friends, reassuring religious figures/angels/beings of light, validation that life counts, affirmative and inspiring dialogue (life reviews are common); and the transcendent experience exposure to otherworldly dimensions and scenes beyond the individual's frame of reference, revelations of greater truths about creation/history/humankind (seldom personal in content).
When asked what are the most common elements found in near-death experiences, I can say without hesitation: out-of-body episodes, and that incredibly bright, loving light. There aren't that many people who report "tunnels." Most of those in my research base found themselves in another dimension fairly soon after they left their bodies. "Greeters" are commonplace, someone who suddenly appears and then acts as a guide. In most accounts, spirit greeters are deceased loved ones, yet they can also be deceased pets. Yes, animals. Although visitations by angels, light beings, and religious figures are frequently reported, less typical but hardly rare are descriptions of unfriendly, critical greeters and demonic-type beings. With those I had sessions with, the occurrence of unpleasant or hellish experiences was 1 out of 7. Another researcher felt that 1 out of 5 was more accurate, and he may be right. I honestly feel that distressing near-death experiences are underreported because people are either afraid or ashamed to admit they had one. After the experience is over, it isn't over. There are aftereffects physical changes (unusual sensitivity to light and sound, electrical sensitivity, lower blood pressure, decreased tolerance of pharmaceuticals, to name a few), and personality changes (latent abilities surface, become more tolerant and emotionally expressive, smarter than before, enhanced creative/psychic abilities, more spiritual, and so forth).
What does this all mean? The vast majority consider the near-death phenomenon to be a spiritual experience, an opportunity to know for certain that God exists and that we each are co-creators with God in making this a better and more loving world. That's our job, and whatever we do to fulfill that job, large or small, is important. Yet the most oft-repeated phrase experiencers exclaim after their episode is "Always there is life." If that is true, then how can there be an afterlife, or, a before life? Or a single span of months or years? Maybe it's life we need to redefine, not death. By P.M.H.Atwater, L.H.D., Ph.D. (Hon.)
For summary charts of the various aspects of my research findings, please refer to "The Eight Research Charts." Thank you, PMH
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CORRECTION IN REPORTINGS OF NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCES
There is now a concerted effort with researchers of near-death states to "set
the record straight" as to percentages of occurrence. Most surveys conducted
by various magazines and organizations in the past were not scientific or even
reliable. The problem is ambiguous questions which slant answers. The result:
overestimates, that are based more on wishful thinking than anything close
to verifiable facts.
The poll used today, giving an estimate of 15 million near-death experiencers
in the United States (or 5% of the population), was conducted by U. S. News & World
Report in 1997. However, the figure more in keeping with actual case reportings
in the United States, Holland, and Germany is 4% (which makes 11 million in
the U.S.). What is of keen interest to researchers is that the 4% figure for
general populations is showing up in other countries worldwide. Because of
this, researchers are down-scaling the percentages they quote. Some references:
Random inquiry in Germany (Schmied, et al) conducted in 1999 and the original
Gallup Poll done in 1982.
For those people who were near death, nearly died, or who did die but later
revived or were resuscitated, the estimate of one-third that was previously
used to indicate how many would have a near-death experience is also over-inflated.
The number is closer to between 12 to 20 percent. The real problem here, though,
is with children.
There has never been any survey of any kind that addresses child experiencers
of near-death states. A given assumption in poll taking is that an individual's
near-death experience occurred in adulthood. Preliminary work by Melvin Morse,
M.D., a pediatrician in the State of Washington, suggests that with child experiencers
the figure is closer to 70% - more than double that of adults. Since Morse's
work has yet to be duplicated, especially in other countries, no conclusions
can yet be drawn as to what this difference might mean.
It can be said that near-death cases are on the rise.
What cannot be said with any real degree of confidence is by how much.
. . . by P. M. H. Atwater, L.H.D., near-death researcher, http://www.pmhatwater.com
4/11/06
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P. M. H. Atwater, L.H.D. is one of the original researchers in the field of near-death studies, having begun her work in 1978. She has written nine books on her findings, and is now working on her tenth Ð the final wrapup of her theory about brain shift/spirit shift, straight talk about transformations of consciousness and the future of the human race. Some of her findings have been verified in clinical studies, among them the prospective study done in Holland and published in ÒLancetÓ medical journal (12-15-01). Her ÒThe Big Book of Near-Death ExperiencesÓ brings the entire field up-to-date, and was featured in an online version of ÒNewsweek Magazine.Ó In 2005, she was awarded the Outstanding Service Award from the International Association of Near-Death Studies (IANDS), and the Lifetime Achievement Award from the National Association of Transpersonal Hypnotherapists (NATH). Also a generational researcher, she wrote ÒBeyond the Indigo Children.Ó What some people do not realize is that she, too, is an experiencer, having died three times in three months in 1977, and each time experiencing the phenomenon.Ê
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There is no central listing of books about children who have
had near-death experiences, or are written by them. I wish to start one,
so here goes:
THE FIRST FICTIONALIZED BOOK ABOUT A CHILD'S NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE, WRITTEN
BY A CHILD NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCER ONCE GROWN - "The Door to the Secret
City" by Kathy Forti. No longer available in bookstores, it can be obtained
online through Kathy. Contact her at: 12401 Wilshire Blvd., Suite 306, Los
Angeles, CA 90025; kjforti@aol.com. Originally published in 1984 by Stillpoint
Press. You can read about Kathy's case in my book, "Future Memory."
THE FIRST BOOK ABOUT A CHILD'S NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE AND ITS AFTEREFFECTS,
WRITTEN BY THE CHILD EXPERIENCER WHILE STILL A CHILD - "In His Arms" by
Denise Mendenhall (with the help of her father, Doug Mendenhall). Self-published
and available from the Mendenhall family. Contact: Publishing Hope, P. O. Box
282, Mt. Pleasant, UT 84647; halmendenhall@aol.com. Originally published in
2006, the book is both wondrous and disturbing, showing more clearly than ever
before how differently than an adult a child tends to regard both the near-death
experience and its aftereffects.
THE FIRST BOOK ABOUT A CHILD'S NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE, WRITTEN AND ILLUSTRATED
BY THE EXPERIENCER ONCE GROWN - "A Journey with the Angel of Light" by
Aafke H. Holm-Oosterhof. Done thirty years after-the-fact, it is a vivid account
of the actualities involved, accompanied by stunning artwork. Unfortunately,
the book is in Dutch. I keep hoping it will be translated and published in
the U. S. Contact Aafke at aafke@holm.myweb.nl; or through her website at http://home.hccnet.nl/p.g.holm.
THE FIRST ADDITION TO A BOOK SERIES WHERE A CHILD EXPERIENCER ONCE GROWN
IS THE MAJOR CONTRIBUTOR - "Near-Death Experiences" by Michael Martin,
assisted by Linda Jacquin. Available in 2005, the series is entitled "The
Unexplained" and is designed by Capstone Press, its publisher, for students
from 3rd to 6th grade reading levels. Contact: Capstone Press, 151 Good Council
Drive, P. O. Box 669, Mankato, MN 56002. Linda Jacquin, should you wish to
contact her, may be reached via jacadv@centurytel.net.
THE FIRST FICTIONALIZED ACCOUNT OF A CHILD'S NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE WRITTEN
BY A RESEARCHER OF NEAR-DEATH STATES - "Talking with Angel: About Illness,
Death and Survival" by Evelyn Elsaesser-Valarino. Coming out in 2005,
the book was published by Floris Books of Edinburgh, Scotland, but is readily
available in U. S. bookstores or online through www.amazon.com. This book,
by the way, is exceptional reading for anyone who has lost a child.
FICTIONALIZED ACCOUNT OF A CHILD'S NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE THAT IS WRITTEN
FOR CHILD READERS BY AN AUTHOR FAMILIAR WITH RESEARCH ON NEAR-DEATH STATES
- "A
Bridge for Grandma" by Carol McCormick. Self-published and with outstanding
illustrations, the book is available from: Beavers Pond Press, 7104 Ohms Lane,
Suite 216, Edina, MN 55439; www.BeaversPondPress.com.
Many books have been published that are collections of narratives either
from or about children's near-death experiences and the children themselves.
Some
were written by physicians, fellow researchers, and various individuals moved
by these cases. Only three are based on large, objective studies of child
experiencers, their episodes and aftereffects. These three books are:
"Closer to the Light: Learning from the Near-Death Experiences of Children" by
Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry. New York City; Villard Books, 1990.
"Children of the Light: The Near-Death Experiences of Children" by
Cherie Sutherland, Ph.D. Sydney, Australia; Bantam Books, 1995.
"The New Children and Near-Death Experiences" by P. M. H. Atwater,
L.H.D. Rochester, VT; Inner Traditions/Bear & Co., 1999/2003. (Originally
published as "Children of the New Millennium" through Three Rivers
Press, NYC.)
I sincerely believe that we have only begun to tap into what can be learned
from children who have had a near-death experience. In the past, kids' cases
were
studied by adults, who viewed them through the lens of adult models and adult
points of view to arrive at their findings. This seriously skewed the results.
Children cannot be researched as one would an adult. If they are allowed to
express themselves openly and freely, with their perspective honored, a picture
emerges
that is both incredibly amazing and uncomfortably challenging. This is why
I feel the book "In His Arms" is so important. You are immediately faced
in this book with the renderings of a miracle child, who defied medical science
by surviving her ordeal, yet who has had her worldview so reordered that the
average person will wonder whether or not she is mentally stable. She is not
atypical.
I hope this list of books inspires other child experiencers to write their
own book, no matter how old they now are. And.......please send me a copy.
Send to:
P. M. H. Atwater, L.H.D., P. O. Box 7691, Charlottesville, VA 22906-7691. Thank
you!
See also: "TIME TO REASSESS"
Source for more information about the near-death experience and
other related matters.
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